a lil something to think about
the thing about relationships is that they're dynamic and not static. that's what makes having r/s with ppl exciting. im not refering to juz bgr kind of r/s, but in general, r/s with ur family, with ur friends and ppl.
thats why its usually better not to expect too much from ppl. you cant box them up and expect them to behave the way you'll like them to. cos if you do, you'll only end up with sharp corners and end up hurting urself. suffice to say, never do anything for somebody hoping that you'll get something equal in return, esp if it was not a plead or a request for help or something. hence don't set standards for anybody.. it's not their job to live up to our expectations. neither is it your job to live up to other's.
so what keeps relations going strong, when after what i just said, everybody should be living like a bastard and thinking for themselves. i guess its love in some form or another. although we are all sinners, i do think that inherently we want to do good, and hence we give thought to other ppl, but of coz you cant dish your love out equally.. unlike our Father who art in heaven. whats the basis of dishing it out?? i wont know, probably it goes by feeling.. some you just will be more incline to give, and some you just hold back.. but that doesnt mean ultimately there's any bad blood, and depends on whether you heng or sway to be on their love meter lor.
that said, give thought to everybody around you, loosen up abit, and maybe you'll feel alot better that the situation is shite as it is, so why make it shittier?? yupps, and finally, never ever blog about your friends if you feel u haf a problem with them. even how subtle you think you might put it, your friends are not dumb, they know.. so if they do offer you a chance to talk it out, don't shrug it off and say nvm and expect everything from then on to be fine.. coz if you don't clean the shit from your ass.. your ass is going to stink.. and not that cleaning it will make it less stink.. but at least you won't stain your grannies panties.. and that's what matters.. CLEAN UNDERWEAR.
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napkin man
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2:38 am
